~ Every person must apply individually.
No shared accounts. No couple profiles.
~ Every individual must complete their own Consent & Etiquette Course before attending any event.
~ Do not share the invite link to this group. If someone’s curious, send them the application form.
No app = no access. Period.
~ Don’t message people you don’t know (except the hosts or admins) without consent.
This is a space for connection, not cold approaches. Ask first. Respect the container.
We will know instantly if you try to slide around the process, whether that’s sending the invite link, skipping the course, or treating this like Tinder.
~ Consent isn’t a trend. It’s the foundation.
If you’re not clear on that, check out the consent course again.
~ What happens in the Temple stays in the Temple.
No screenshots, no name-dropping, no retelling stories that aren’t yours.
~ If something feels off or unsafe, speak to a host or DM (Dungeon Monitor) immediately.
We are building a community rooted in accountability, integrity, and growth. That means we take every violation seriously, but we also recognize that people are human.
So what happens if something goes down?
A statement form will be submitted by everyone involved (whether it's two or more people).
The form(s) will be reviewed by the hosts and admins.
From there, we decide on the outcome based on the severity, context, and willingness to take accountability.
Not every violation means you’re out, but some absolutely do.
⚠️ Immediate Removal (No Warnings):
If you do any of the following, you’re gone. Full stop.
~ Touching someone without their consent (includes physical, sexual, or energetic touch)
~ Starting an altercation (verbal or physical)
~ Showing up to an event under the influence of drugs or alcohol
~ Harassment, intimidation, or coercion of any kind
~ Repeated boundary-pushing, even after redirection
~ Disrespecting DMs, hosts, or the container’s structure
🛠️ Growth-Oriented Violations (Handled Case by Case):
These are things that may lead to a conversation, warning, or temporary pause from red events, depending on your response:
~ Breaking protocol (e.g., late for check-in, not completing consent course)
~ Unintentional boundary crossing with immediate correction
~ Miscommunication during a scene or debrief
~ Feedback from another participant about discomfort or energy mismatch
The difference? Accountability.
If you can own your shit and show a willingness to grow, we can work with that. If you deflect, deny, or gaslight, we can’t.
All ticket sales are final.
We don’t give refunds
If you can’t make it, you may request a voucher to use for the next event.
To get one, you must message Sir Pocketz or Mistress Kitty in a private DM before the event starts.
After the event? That ticket becomes a donation to the Temple.
Taking the Consent & Etiquette Course is mandatory before attending.
You can buy a ticket before taking the course, but if you show up without it done, you’re not getting in.