This isn’t a job.

It’s a fucking calling.

I don’t do this work because it looks cool on Instagram.

I do it because I’ve lived through disconnection, dissociation, performance, shame, and silence—and I fought my way back through embodiment, sensation, and truth.

Not the pretty kind. The messy, gut-wrenching, freeing kind.

I created Holistic Kink Coaching for people like you:

The ones who feel too much and still wonder if it’s not enough.

The ones craving sensation, connection, healing, and raw honesty—without apology.

The ones who’ve tried to fit into “normal” but couldn’t shrink themselves any further.

This is a space where your full self is not just welcome—it’s required.

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The Work I Do

I offer somatic embodiment sessions, kink-informed coaching, and a private online community called the Holistic Kink Circle.

Everything I offer is designed to help you:

Get the fuck out of your head and into your body
Feel safe exploring the edges of power, surrender, trust, and desire
Reclaim connection with yourself—even the parts you’ve buried
Build relationships that don’t rely on performance or control

What Makes This Different

This isn’t therapy.

This isn’t BDSM 101.

This is soul work disguised as sensation.

Every part of my work blends presence, rope, nervous system wisdom, kink theory, Buddhist philosophy, emotional release, and zero-bullshit accountability.

We don’t bypass. We don’t sugarcoat.

We meet what’s real—so you can finally stop pretending.

Your Practitioner

You can call me Sir Pocketz.

I’m a practitioner of Bondage Directed Somatic Medicine™—a framework I created through 10+ years of ropework, bodywork, performance, and spiritual integration.

I’ve tied bodies in public, on stages, in private ceremony, and in moments of deep healing.

I’ve helped hundreds of people feel again—sometimes for the first time in years.

I’m not here to play nice.

I’m here to help you come back to yourself.

This is for you if…

You’re carrying shit you can’t name and don’t want to anymore
You crave deeper connection—with yourself, your body, or others
You’re curious about kink but need someone who won’t make it weird
You want healing that feels like truth, not a performance
You’re ready to feel more present, more powerful, and more you

Still reading? Good. That means something’s waking up.

If you’re feeling the pull, don’t wait until it “makes sense.”

This work rarely does—until you’re in it.

Reach out.

Book a session.

Join the Circle.

Start the fuck over.