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Temple of Shadow and Light

We provide a carefully curated experience that requires intentionality, emotional maturity, and a deep respect for consent and boundaries. This application helps us ensure that all attendees are aligned with the values of this space. Completion of this form does not guarantee acceptance—only those who fully align with the event’s vision will receive an invitation.

General Info

First Name *

Last Name *

Preferred Name *

Pronouns *

Phone *

Email *

Date of birth *

Instagram *

City *

State *

Occupation *

Relationship Status *

Experience and Intentions

Have you attended a play party or BDSM/kink-conscious event before? *

Yes, multiple times

Yes, but only a few times

No, this will be my first experience

If yes, briefly describe your previous experience in similar spaces. (Where did you attend? What types of experiences have you explored? What did you learn from them?)

What draws you to this experience? (Why do you want to attend Temple of Shadows & Light? What do you hope to gain from this experience?) *

Which energy are you most drawn to embody? *

Shadow (power, intensity, primal energy, dominance)

Light (Surrender, softness, devotion, receptivity)

Unsure / I want to explore both

What, if anything, do you feel resistance or apprehension toward?

Consent, Safety, & Communication

How would you define enthusiastic consent?

How do you ensure you are respecting another person’s boundaries in an intimate or play-based setting?

How do you personally communicate your own boundaries in play or sensual exploration?

How do you respond when someone tells you “no” or withdraws consent?

If you were in a situation where you witnessed a consent violation or an interaction that seemed unsafe, what would you do?

Are you comfortable with being in an environment where nudity, BDSM, and sensual play may take place?

Yes please!

Yes, i prefer to just watch

No

Are you open to engaging in both giving and receiving touch, energy exchange, or sensation play in a consensual way? (Participation is never mandatory, but willingness to engage at some level is valued.)

Yes

No

Unsure

Emotional Maturity & Self Awareness

What is your experience with self-regulation and emotional processing? (How do you handle intense emotions, triggers, or overwhelming experiences?)

How do you react when something doesn’t go the way you expected in an intimate or play-based space?

How do you handle rejection or someone declining an invitation to engage?

If a boundary or limit is pushed beyond your comfort zone, how do you advocate for yourself?

Do you have any personal triggers that you would like the facilitators to be aware of?

Health & Safety Considerations

Do you have any allergies, medical conditions, or physical limitations that facilitators should be aware of? (Optional)

Are you currently taking any medications that might affect your ability to fully participate in sensory or impact play? (Optional)

Do you have any boundaries related to physical touch, nudity, or BDSM play that you’d like us to be aware of? (Optional)

Do you drink alcohol or use substances at play parties? (Note: All of our events are substance-free events (420 OK), and guests are expected to be in a sober, embodied state.)

Yes

No

Final Agreement & Code of Conduct

Temple of Shadow & Light operates on the principles of:

Radical consent & boundary awareness
Mutual respect for all participants regardless of gender, identity, or experience level
A commitment to playing within the guidelines of safety, risk awareness, and emotional responsibility

By submitting this application, you acknowledge that:
✅ You understand and respect the importance of enthusiastic consent.
✅ You take responsibility for your own emotions, experiences, and interactions at the event.
✅ You will honor the rules of the space, the boundaries of others, and the guidance of facilitators.
✅ You understand that this is a sober, intentional space, and any violation of the code of conduct will result in immediate removal.

Do you agree to uphold these values and participate with full presence and integrity? *

Yes, I fully agree.

No (If you select this, your application will not be considered.)

Is there anything else you’d like us to know about you before we review your application? (Optional)

Note: If you don't receive a response within a couple of days, feel free to follow up via Instagram for a faster reply.

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