Explore. Connect. Transform.

Meet Sir Pocketz

"We must understand what our intentions are and make sure our energy matches"

Holistic Kink Coaching is for those navigating non-traditional lifestyles, including non-monogamy, BDSM, and other alternative relationship dynamics. It is a journey into self-discovery, embodiment, and deeper connection. Through Bondage Directed Somatic Medicine, mindful communication, and immersive experiences, I guide individuals and couples in exploring their desires, boundaries, and relational dynamics in a safe, trauma-informed space.

How we work together

Somatic Experiencing

Guided experiences in rope work, sensation play, and embodiment.

Relationship Coaching

Improve your communication and build stronger connections.

Personal Discovery

Boost your confidence and achieve your goals with clarity.

In Person Workshops

Virtual Offerings

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Experience Your First Session—Pay What Feels Right

Step into your journey with an open heart and no financial pressure. Your first Somatic Embodiment Session is offered on a pay-what-feels-right basis, allowing you to experience deep connection, sensory exploration, and self-discovery without barriers. Whether you're curious, hesitant, or eager to dive in, this session is an invitation to step into your body, your desires, and your truth—on your own terms.

10+

Years of Experience

1000+

Satified Clients

300+

Performances

FAQs: Your Questions Answered

What are non-traditional lifestyles?

Non-traditional lifestyles encompass relationships, identities, and ways of living that exist outside mainstream societal norms. This can include consensual non-monogamy, BDSM, queer and alternative relationship dynamics, and other explorations of identity, connection, and intimacy that honor personal truth and autonomy.

Is this coaching only for people who practice kink?

Not at all! While my coaching integrates kink-conscious practices, it is designed for anyone interested in self-exploration, embodiment, and deeper connections—whether you're new to these concepts or well-versed.

What can I expect in a session?

Each session is unique to you. We may explore guided somatic experiences, relational coaching, or personal discovery through tailored exercises. All sessions are consent-based and move at your comfort level.

Do I need prior experience with shibari or sensation play?

No experience is necessary! Whether you're brand new or experienced, sessions are customized to your needs, comfort, and curiosity.

Is this therapy?

No, this is not a replacement for therapy. My coaching provides somatic and relational guidance, but it is not a licensed mental health service.

At Holistic Kink Coaching, we guide you to explore, connect, and embrace your authentic self.

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